I have often read or heard about the damaging effects numerous unloving relationships can have on the female psyche, i.e. how she feels about herself, how she feels about her body, low self-esteem, etc. Nowhere have I heard about the damaging effects of numerous unloving relationships on the emotional well-being /development of men, particularly those in their formative years. Instead we are led to belive that more is always better, that two women in bed will make us happy, that the brain is not a sex organ. Wanting one woman to spend the rest of our lives with is not discussed or encouraged by society at large.

Concurrently, when a young man cannot achieve an erection he is said to be "not performing", despite the possibility that he may simply feel uncomfortable in a situation where he is expected to mimic the behavior and emotional maturity of a draft horse. The female in this situation may feel that since her partner has not responded with robot-like efficiency he doesn't find her physically attractive. She may even be led to exact some sort of public revenge upon her partner, calling into question his sexual ability, orientation, and overall worth as a member of the human race.

In my expericence, nothing inflates a penis faster than love, trust, and true erotic desire.